The 3-3-3 rule to adopting a shelter pet

Bringing home a new pet is an exciting time! We are full of expectations for a life of adventures and snuggles. Before we can commence the happily ever after, though, we need to help our new pet settle into their home.

Many shelter animals go through quite the journey before they head home with you, sometimes coming from across the country to settle into colorful Colorado! It is important to give your new pet time to adjust to their new environment. That’s where the 3-3-3 rule comes in!

While this rule is typically recommended for shelter dogs, shelter cats can also benefit from the grace period the 3-3-3 rule provides.

What is the 3-3-3 rule?

The 3-3-3 rule is a guide to understand what your new pet might be experiencing while they are getting settled into your home. These common milestones vary based on each pets’ unique experiences prior to home. Supporting your new pet through these transitions can help build your bond and show them they can trust you.

The first three days

Your new pet may be overwhelmed. A lot of new things are happening and it’s normal for your cat or dog to be scared or shutdown; overly excited or openly curious.

They may curl up in their crate or find a place to hide and may not eat or drink. Give them the space they need, always providing access to food and water, toys, treats, and a litter box for your feline friends.

Tip: Provide them with a cozy space to decompress

Some pets actively seek attention while others look for a place to decompress and get comfortable with their new surroundings. Adjust your interactions based on their body language and activity levels to ensure the best bond possible.

The first three weeks

Typically, this is when the settling starts. You are working together on your routine and your new pet will be more comfortable and confident in figuring out their new home. This is a great time to start training and socializing with plenty of positive reinforcement.

You may start to see some changes in behavior during this time as they are still learning about their new life.

Resources to guide your new pet experience

The first three months

By 3 months, your new pet should feel a sense of security in their home. They will display signs of comfort; have an established trust with you and have the hang of your routine.

Pay attention to your pet’s preferences. As their personalities start to really shine during this time, you can learn what their favorite toys, activities, and exercises are. It’s also a great time to introduce more advanced training to their routine.

Exploration They are curious about their new environment.
Relaxed body language They present open body posture
A healthy appetite
Comfort Display signs of comfort and maybe even affection with other people and pets in the home.

Rest
Seek Affection
Shadow They may follow you around the house more.
Housetrained They will consistently use designated bathroom areas
Enthusiasm They are engaged during play and training

Keep in mind: The rule of 3s is a general rule of thumb. Some pets adjust quicker to their new life than others and require less time. Some pets may require more time to settle into their surroundings.

Just remember: Positive reinforcement, time, and TLC.